Holiday Joy Deficit

December 16, 2025

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Is a ‘Joy Deficit’ Emerging Among Holiday Shoppers, and How Can Retailers Address It?

According to a recent report penned by Retail Dive’s Cara Salpini, while shoppers are maintaining spend — with the help of BNPL and credit — this holiday season, they are showing signs of fatigue while doing so, and that tiredness may translate to lost consumer trust in the long run.

With Salpini opening by drawing comparisons between Walmart’s latest Grinch-themed ad starring Walton Goggins and the contemporary view of the holiday season more broadly — both “wholesome and consumerist at the same time” — she noted that shoppers were having a hard time feeling that “Merry Christmas” energy given a lack of funds at hand.

“There’s a real joy deficit for consumers,” Katie Thomas, who leads the Kearney Consumer Institute, said, per Salpini.

With brands leveraging “anxiety-enforcing messaging,” consumers are “stressed out, everything’s expensive and you’re getting that told back to you. You’re in the comments on TikTok and everyone’s like, ‘Oh, I can’t even afford my groceries’ … We’re all kind of in that echo chamber of reinforcing that anxiety,” Thomas added.

A number of established data points were then trotted out in support of this thesis: Higher-income shoppers are driving spend as middle- and lower-income consumers show hesitancy and trade down into discount retailers; consumers are signaling a willingness to buy into buy now, pay later and credit card spending to cover their gift-giving; resale is picking up steam as a channel; the gifting of dupe products is on the rise; and “intentionality” and deal-seeking are the buzzwords of today’s holiday retail environment.

Experts Weigh In on How To Prevent Consumers From Faltering in their Holiday Spirit (and Spend)

Salpini summoned the combined wisdom of two experts — Thomas, as well as Anjee Solanki, national director of retail services at Colliers — to make the case for retailers to avoid any potential missteps when making appeals to wary, easily dispirited customers.

Thomas spoke to the primacy of avoiding playing games with pricing, particularly in terms of the temptation to offer artificial discounts on products. An empathetic tone never goes astray, either.

“The challenge with both this and shrinkflation is: You’re going to see the consumer melt slowly,” Thomas said, indicating that those retailers who do play ill-advised games with consumers could see long-term trust (and reputation) damaged. “It is more sensitive this year, but I don’t think you’ll see it reflected in numbers either,” Thomas added.

Both Thomas and Solanki agreed on the proposition of moving toward more heartfelt sentiment, whether through empathetic and tone-aware messaging or emotionally-authentic advertising. And as Salpini noted, this messaging didn’t necessarily have to be overly saccharine to be effective.

“Getting emotional doesn’t have to be serious, either. Target, which stirred up many feelings last year with its ‘hot Santa’ effort, has brought the charismatic Kris K back to its marketing lineup this year, a move the retailer said was driven by shoppers’ desire for more joy this season. An upbeat Starbucks ad shows marker-drawn characters playfully running across coffee cups, while Maybelline actually produced a microdrama Christmas content series,” Salpini wrote.

Solanki underscored that, for customers “inundated” by deals and discounts and hard-selling language, efforts which are “thoughtful and sincere” will resonate further — and that not only marketers, but also front-line retail staff, should be embracing this mindset.

Citing her experience with a Spirit Halloween store she had visited during the fall, one which boasted a haunted house inside, Solaki noted an irrepressible joy in those present.

“The joy in these families — I don’t care if you’re an adult or a child, everyone was engaged in this haunted house,” Solanki said, noting that in-store engagement can drive levity and spark authentic connection between shoppers and retail associates this holiday season.

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"The 'joy deficit' feels very real, and it shows up as hesitation, deal-chasing, and a general emotional drag on the shopping journey."
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Bhargav Trivedi

Solutions Architect, Bloomreach


"If there’s a joy deficit at shopping this time of year it’s because retailers are doing it to themselves. Four months of SALE, SALE, SALE! gets old fast."
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Georganne Bender

Principal, KIZER & BENDER Speaking


"Holiday shoppers with lower incomes amid inflation and tariffs are more likely to have a joy deficit. Retail bifurcation is more pronounced this year."
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Lisa Goller

B2B Content Strategist


Discussion Questions

Is the so-called joy deficit among today’s holiday shoppers a real thing, in your opinion? What other factors are at play surrounding this claim?

Where’s the fine line drawn between authentic, emotional sentiment in advertising and coming off as inauthentic, cheesy, or otherwise off-target? Which brands or retailers come to mind on both sides of this equation?

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Neil Saunders

There is a degree of anxiety among consumers this holiday season, but this has been the case throughout 2025. Shoppers are looking to maximize bang for their buck. This means cutting back on volumes, trading down in some discretionary categories, and using alternative channels like resale – all so they can preserve budget for the things that really matter to them. I would not say there is a joy deficit, but there is a financial deficit shaping behavior.

Craig Sundstrom
Craig Sundstrom

If consumers have to go into debt to shop – and we’re talking about DEBT, not just c.c. buying – who can blame them for joylessness? Retailers can respond with empathy – a variety of price points – rather than selfishly encouraging going even further into hock.

Lisa Goller
Lisa Goller

Holiday shoppers with lower incomes amid inflation and tariffs are more likely to have a joy deficit. Conversely, high-income consumers and those who earned healthy stock market gains are having a jolly holiday season. Retail bifurcation is more pronounced this year.

Georganne Bender
Georganne Bender

I don’t see it as a joy deficit because we are still moved by the holiday season. Sure, some may be buying differently this year, perhaps cobbling together thrifted items to create unique gifts, or maybe just buying smarter.

I think what we’re all really sick of is Christmas starting at the end of August. If there’s a joy deficit at shopping this time of year it’s because retailers are doing it to themselves. Four months of SALE, SALE, SALE! gets old fast.

Cathy Hotka
Cathy Hotka

“Wary” is the word I’d use. With healthcare premiums set to skyrocket, customers at the lower end of the spectrum are going to hold back because they will have to. This unusually bifurcated society is going to have profound changes in retail.

Bhargav Trivedi
Bhargav Trivedi

The “joy deficit” feels very real, and it shows up as hesitation, deal-chasing, and a general emotional drag on the shopping journey. But that also creates a real opportunity for retailers to stand out. Through playful, context-aware media banners or small moments of delight inside product grids, brands can lift the mood and create a more inviting experience. By innovative usage of Agentic Shopping experience, a little creative, joyful guidance can spark inspiration and draw customers in at a time when they’re looking for something that feels different and uplifting.

Shep Hyken

While the numbers that have come out (thus far) indicate a good holiday season for retailers, the economy is shaky, and people are concerned about their finances. Giving gifts is a joyous occasion, and while it makes people feel good, you can’t ignore the “background noise (the economy)” that has many consumers concerned. Consumers are looking for value in the form of pricing. Discounts and promotions make them feel better about their purchases.

Gene Detroyer

It seems to me that the pressure of holiday gift giving and shopping has caused a “joy deficit” for decades. Of course the financial factors weigh in more, but we have been here before with the Financial Crises, the 2020 inflation and tariffs and all they bring.

The retailers themselves add to it with the sales, the deal, the promotions…can you feel their anxiety?

Jeff Sward

I don’t think it’s a joy deficit about the holidays. I think it’s full on dread considering what’s coming after the holidays, for consumers and retailers alike. Wallets are pinched now, but after the ACA subsidies are repealed, the spending power of a whole bunch of households will be hammered. In that light, the holidays are one last chance at a little seasonal joy, even if it’s on a tight budget. Then…buckle in.

The prolongued promotional windows, the blurring and blending of Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas are all kind of frustrating in a way. But it’s still the holidays, and there is joy to be found. The absence of a health care solution, given the time (YEARS!) it has been batted back and forth, given the known deadline, given the known consequences, is irresponsible. Which is putting it mildly.

Anil Patel
Anil Patel

The idea of a joy deficit feels real, but it goes beyond emotion. It reflects a slow erosion of customer trust that has been building over time. Many customers are still spending, but they are doing so with fatigue and caution, often relying on credit rather than confidence.

When customers are met with constant promotions, confusing pricing, or pressure-driven messaging, the holiday experience starts to feel transactional. Sales may still happen in the short term, but the longer-term impact shows up as skepticism and weaker loyalty.

Retailers should stop creating artificial pressure to buy, like constant countdowns, exaggerated discounts, or fear-based messaging. Instead, they should focus on being clear and respectful with customers by showing honest prices, real availability, and realistic offers.

In my experience, joy cannot be manufactured. It comes from customers feeling understood. When communication is sincere and the experience feels thoughtful, customers engage more willingly and trust follows.

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Neil Saunders

There is a degree of anxiety among consumers this holiday season, but this has been the case throughout 2025. Shoppers are looking to maximize bang for their buck. This means cutting back on volumes, trading down in some discretionary categories, and using alternative channels like resale – all so they can preserve budget for the things that really matter to them. I would not say there is a joy deficit, but there is a financial deficit shaping behavior.

Craig Sundstrom
Craig Sundstrom

If consumers have to go into debt to shop – and we’re talking about DEBT, not just c.c. buying – who can blame them for joylessness? Retailers can respond with empathy – a variety of price points – rather than selfishly encouraging going even further into hock.

Lisa Goller
Lisa Goller

Holiday shoppers with lower incomes amid inflation and tariffs are more likely to have a joy deficit. Conversely, high-income consumers and those who earned healthy stock market gains are having a jolly holiday season. Retail bifurcation is more pronounced this year.

Georganne Bender
Georganne Bender

I don’t see it as a joy deficit because we are still moved by the holiday season. Sure, some may be buying differently this year, perhaps cobbling together thrifted items to create unique gifts, or maybe just buying smarter.

I think what we’re all really sick of is Christmas starting at the end of August. If there’s a joy deficit at shopping this time of year it’s because retailers are doing it to themselves. Four months of SALE, SALE, SALE! gets old fast.

Cathy Hotka
Cathy Hotka

“Wary” is the word I’d use. With healthcare premiums set to skyrocket, customers at the lower end of the spectrum are going to hold back because they will have to. This unusually bifurcated society is going to have profound changes in retail.

Bhargav Trivedi
Bhargav Trivedi

The “joy deficit” feels very real, and it shows up as hesitation, deal-chasing, and a general emotional drag on the shopping journey. But that also creates a real opportunity for retailers to stand out. Through playful, context-aware media banners or small moments of delight inside product grids, brands can lift the mood and create a more inviting experience. By innovative usage of Agentic Shopping experience, a little creative, joyful guidance can spark inspiration and draw customers in at a time when they’re looking for something that feels different and uplifting.

Shep Hyken

While the numbers that have come out (thus far) indicate a good holiday season for retailers, the economy is shaky, and people are concerned about their finances. Giving gifts is a joyous occasion, and while it makes people feel good, you can’t ignore the “background noise (the economy)” that has many consumers concerned. Consumers are looking for value in the form of pricing. Discounts and promotions make them feel better about their purchases.

Gene Detroyer

It seems to me that the pressure of holiday gift giving and shopping has caused a “joy deficit” for decades. Of course the financial factors weigh in more, but we have been here before with the Financial Crises, the 2020 inflation and tariffs and all they bring.

The retailers themselves add to it with the sales, the deal, the promotions…can you feel their anxiety?

Jeff Sward

I don’t think it’s a joy deficit about the holidays. I think it’s full on dread considering what’s coming after the holidays, for consumers and retailers alike. Wallets are pinched now, but after the ACA subsidies are repealed, the spending power of a whole bunch of households will be hammered. In that light, the holidays are one last chance at a little seasonal joy, even if it’s on a tight budget. Then…buckle in.

The prolongued promotional windows, the blurring and blending of Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas are all kind of frustrating in a way. But it’s still the holidays, and there is joy to be found. The absence of a health care solution, given the time (YEARS!) it has been batted back and forth, given the known deadline, given the known consequences, is irresponsible. Which is putting it mildly.

Anil Patel
Anil Patel

The idea of a joy deficit feels real, but it goes beyond emotion. It reflects a slow erosion of customer trust that has been building over time. Many customers are still spending, but they are doing so with fatigue and caution, often relying on credit rather than confidence.

When customers are met with constant promotions, confusing pricing, or pressure-driven messaging, the holiday experience starts to feel transactional. Sales may still happen in the short term, but the longer-term impact shows up as skepticism and weaker loyalty.

Retailers should stop creating artificial pressure to buy, like constant countdowns, exaggerated discounts, or fear-based messaging. Instead, they should focus on being clear and respectful with customers by showing honest prices, real availability, and realistic offers.

In my experience, joy cannot be manufactured. It comes from customers feeling understood. When communication is sincere and the experience feels thoughtful, customers engage more willingly and trust follows.

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