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July 19, 2024

How Do You Get Over Post-Vacation Blues?

A survey from MyBioSource found that instead of feeling recharged and refreshed, 42% of Americans dread coming back to work after time off.

The survey of over 1,000 employed Americans also found:

  • 34% reported that burnout usually sets in right after returning from their time off, while 50% said it occurs within one week of returning.
  • Employed Americans experiencing post-time-off burnout reported low energy levels (65%) and a lack of motivation (63%).
  • Only 13% felt excited to come back to work.

A survey of 1,000 full-time employees from Visier found that 20% of respondents admitted they’d quit after returning from vacation while nearly half (44%) have thought about it.

A Harvard Business Review article noted that returning workers may feel drained despite taking a break because vacation travel may have been “exhausting” or because work calls or parenting prevented adequate relaxation. However, vacations also often lead to a reevaluation of a job’s worth.

Tessa West, professor of psychology at NYU and the author of “Job Therapy: Finding Work That Works for You,” told HBR, “With time away, you recognize that you’ve been dealing with all these low-level stressors at work — a long commute or a boss who’s always putting another meeting on your schedule, so you feel anticipatory anxiety about being back.”

Dani Blum, a health reporter for the New York Times, said a break is often only temporarily restorative for workers already burned out. She wrote in a recent article, “When people are intensely stressed, vacation is more like a Band-Aid. They might feel better when they’re away, but as soon as it’s time to return, they become anxious again.”

To smooth the return to work after a break, the HBR article advised setting “reasonable expectations” for getting back up to speed at work, prioritizing tasks you like to do during the re-entry period, remembering why you found fulfilling about the job, and recognizing the complementary role work plays in funding your “richer and more fulfilled life,” including vacations.

Workers were advised to start exploring new career paths and roles if work anxiety wasn’t resolved in a few weeks.

The Times article suggested taking a day off day before going back to work to reset. Another suggestion was taking the opportunity to pay greater attention to what’s causing daily work stresses and make a plan to address them.

Christina Maslach, a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley who studies burnout, told the Times that workers should connect with colleagues to explore how they cope with job stress and brainstorm together to resolve “the pebbles in the shoe,” or regular job irritations.

In an opinion piece for HR Grapevine, Benjamin Broomfield noted that while employers should be encouraging vacations to combat burnout and improve mental well-being, organizations shouldn’t expect workers to return refreshed. He wrote, “Let’s stop expecting it to be a given that after coming back from vacation, productivity and engagement will spike, and that all the issues affecting an employee’s motivation will magically disappear.”

Discussion Questions

Does it make sense that many employees feel drained and unmotivated instead of recharged and refreshed upon returning to work after a break?

What advice would you have for employees about how to feel more confident about returning to work?

Do you personally feel recharged after a break, or do you require an adjustment period?

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Neil Saunders

Mild post vacation blues are normal. More serious and lingering blues suggest wider issues, perhaps related to job satisfaction. Time is too short for a life made miserable because of your job.

Last edited 1 year ago by Neil Saunders
Cathy Hotka
Cathy Hotka

Working Americans not only don’t get enough vacation time, they’re also reluctant to take the time they do have for fear of rocking the boat. Let’s see if we can change the culture.

Gene Detroyer
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Reply to  Cathy Hotka

Both points are spot on. The American work ethic has no interest in productivity, just work, even if unproductive.

Mohammad Ahsen
Mohammad Ahsen

It’s not surprising if employees feel drained after a break; the real issue might be unresolved daily stressors or poor work-life balance, which a short vacation can’t fully address.

To feel more confident returning to work, try setting reasonable expectations, prioritize tasks you enjoy, and address ongoing stressors. Consider taking a day off before returning to reset and reflect.

Last edited 1 year ago by Mohammad Ahsen
Craig Sundstrom
Craig Sundstrom

The answer is simple: never go on vacation! 🙂 More thoughtfully, I think the key is not waiting so long, and getting so burned out, that a return seems like an ordeal. Ultimately, of course, you have to like your job…if the best part of a vacation is not being there, nothing is going to help much.

Last edited 1 year ago by Craig Sundstrom
Gary Sankary
Gary Sankary
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I’ve tried this approach. Hasn’t been a great solution.

Georganne Bender
Georganne Bender

We needed a survey to find out that 42% of Americans dread coming back to work after time off? I could have phoned that one in from the couch.

Last edited 1 year ago by Georganne Bender
David Biernbaum

The return to work after vacation can be uncomfortable for employees including managers and executives, and I believe there are at least five reasons for this.

1.      Vacations, especially those with children, are rarely relaxing or refreshing.  Often, these adventures involve hardships with travel, high levels of maintenance with children, and sleeping facilities that are less than comfortable when compared to those found at home. The transition back to work requires a significant psychological adjustment.

2.      Managers and executives worry about what they missed while away from work, how they will catch up, and what surprises they will face. It might be a stressful situation. Workplace support can ease the transition by providing clear updates on what occurred during the employee’s absence, helping to reduce anxiety about catching up.

3.      Vacationers often experience weather delays, cancelled flights, late flights, or overbooked flights when traveling by air, all very stressful and exhausting, especially for families. Offering flexible scheduling during the day back can help employees ease into their workload. Additionally, setting up a catch-up meeting with key team members can provide a comprehensive overview of missed activities and priorities. Encouraging a gradual reintroduction to major projects can also mitigate the initial stress and help employees regain their productivity smoothly.

4.      Unfortunately, more than half of all Americans dislike their bosses, and aren’t anxious to get back to them. Supportive management is crucial in fostering a positive work environment and alleviating the stress associated with returning from vacation.

5.      But the blues might occur for happy or sentimental reasons, too. Maybe you wish you were still there with your loved ones, and find it hard to be separated from them and the experience and location. Encouraging employees to share their vacation experiences can foster a sense of community and allow coworkers to bond over shared interests.

I have personally had vacations where I needed to stay in close touch the entire time, by phone, email, and text-messaging, and it was a relief when my work life returned to normal! – Db

Last edited 1 year ago by David Biernbaum
Mark Self
Mark Self

What kind of vacation lends itself to support the notion of being “reenergized”? Going out on a bit of a limb here but most of us are not traveling to Walden Pond and writing in a journal…you go somewhere fun, maybe (oprobably?) drink too much, and you have a great time, then…return home to the same old, same old.
Post vacation depression is part of the natural order of things. Nothing to worry about!

Brian Cluster

It seems logical that over 40% of Americans would dread coming back to work. What would be interesting if we could gain perspective of the same question 5 years ago and even another perspective 20 years ago. This would provide a more insightful comparison to pre-covid and prior generations.
Companies that are serious in supporting work-life balance have plans in place for vacation coverage. There should be considerable effort to limit additional stress on the team due to a vacation. Cross training and proactive coverage plans would help employees be confident to leave and not regret (as much) to returning to work after vacation

Jenn McMillen

Be honest. When is the last time you took vacation and didn’t check email? Whether you were expected to “keep in touch” while out, or just dreading the avalanche of email and to-do’s sitting in your inbox so you obsessively checked your phone at least once a day, office culture has changed for the worst. Many risk the label of “lazy” or “uncommitted” if they don’t check, which is a shame. Here comes sarcasm…After all, your workplace is right there in your hand or your pocket, so you have no excuse. In this instance, technology has made our lives worse with an expectation of being “always on” and always reachable. Until we all start doing brain surgery or emergency limb reattachment, I’m guessing nothing is that urgent.

Lisa Goller
Lisa Goller

One thing that can help employees (or leaders) lighten their mood is making a gratitude list of at least five things they like about work. It could be a role that aligns with your passion and talents, colleagues who make even Monday mornings cheerful or the income that lets you go wild on Prime Day. If you struggle to come up with five things, that could be the gift of awareness nudging you to take a small step toward the exit.

James Tenser

Many workers experience what I call “the double vacation penalty”. It consists of a mad rush to tie up loose ends prior to taking time off, followed by the mad crush of postponed to-dos that assault you upon return. If the holiday in-between included excess partying, airport hassles or long hours on the highway, its restorative value may be severely limited.
Then again, there is enormous emotional merit in simply busting up your routine. We all become ossified, more or less, by the repetitive nature of work. This is as much true for knowledge workers as for folks on the assembly line. A change of scene is healthy. It’s quite normal to feel a little let down when its over. If that feeling crosses the line into “dread” then maybe it’s the job, not the vacation, that’s to blame.

Last edited 1 year ago by James Tenser
Bob Amster

I believe that this is caused by one of two situations. One situation is that your vacation was not relaxing or enjoyable enough, even stressful. The other is that you don’t love what you do enough to go back to it, or you don’t love the place in which you do what you love to go back there. The solutions to both conditions is self-explanatory.

Dick Seesel
Dick Seesel

1. Without becoming a prisoner of your devices, take a little time daily to clear email.
2. Plan the next vacation!

Nicola Kinsella
Nicola Kinsella

In the U.S. we really don’t know how to take proper time off. When I talk to colleagues in Europe and Australia about taking ‘a week off’ they always respond “But a week isn’t enough to truly relax and disengage from work. You need at least two weeks!” It also builds in more time to recover (think laundry, organizing family schedules, processing mail, etc.) before returning so you don’t start day one back at work feeling overwhelmed.

Last edited 1 year ago by Nicola Kinsella
Shannon Flanagan
Shannon Flanagan

I just came back from vacation, I echo having a day home before going back – I always try to do. Something I’m not great at is taking longer vacations vs. long weekends. The effort to get ready to go on holiday and the clean-up post is the same. Also, we MUST unplug! Let’s lead by example as leaders and normalize. We’re not saving lives.

Allison Stoltz
Allison Stoltz

Not all vacations lend themselves to an ability to relax and recharge, nor do all seasons of life. Prolonged burn-out isn’t solved with one short vacation but needs a longer list of boundaries created between your home and work life. We all need more than periodic vacations to focus on recharging our batteries.

Roland Gossage
Roland Gossage

The results of this survey are unsurprising. The work/life culture in the U.S. has been unbalanced for decades. The stressors of preparing for and returning from holiday, combined with most employees’ inability to fully disconnect while on leave, are the main drivers behind people feeling drained and unmotivated upon their return.
For employees looking to feel more confident about returning to work, more consistent and planned time off is a great start. This helps to get ahead of burnout and the added stress it can bring to the office return.

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"A change of scene is healthy. It’s quite normal to feel a little let down when it's over. If that feeling crosses the line into dread, then maybe it’s the job that’s to blame."
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James Tenser

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"Working Americans not only don’t get enough vacation time, they’re also reluctant to take the time they do have for fear of rocking the boat."
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Cathy Hotka

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"It’s not surprising employees feel drained after a break…the real issue might be unresolved daily stress or poor work-life balance, which a short vacation can’t fully address."
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Mohammad Ahsen

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